SACRED AFFAIR

retreats

Customized retreats in Mexico and beyond
for couples ready to enter a deeper, more divine dimension of their love

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Exclusively limited to one couple per month, experience legendary intimate awakening.

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It’s an awakening into a deeper way of loving where connection becomes art, devotion expands and your love feels touched by something eternal.

  • You’re longing for a relationship that feels passionate and spiritually alive, beyond words, where your connection hums beneath your skin and energizes your life.
  • You want your conversations to open portals of connection where truth feels safe, tender, and deeply intimate.
  • You’re longing to experience yourselves and each other in new dimensions— where pleasure expands, curiosity awakens, and connection feels vividly, breathtakingly alive.
  • You want to experience your relationship from a different level of consciousness—one where reactions soften, clarity emerges, and connection feels ecstatic & sacred.
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Your extraordinary love story starts here.

SACRED AFFAIR

retreats

Application-only, multi-phase journeys for couples committed to deepening their divine connection.


Each journey includes pre-retreat sessions, customized practices for both women and men and culminates in a 3 part private immersion in Mexico or a destination of your choosing.

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Find yourselves glowing in tenderness, openness, and renewed desire. Let your relationship come alive with play, devotion, and connection that feels renewed.

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What awaits you in the Sacred Affair Experience?

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Tantric Immersion

Tantra is an ancient path of awakening that invites you into deeper connection, intimacy, and embodied presence. It weaves philosophy, science, and sacred ritual into a living practice that has supported human transformation for thousands of years.

Through meditations designed for couples and individuals, embodied practices, breathwork, energy work, and conscious touch, Tantra opens new pathways in both the brain and the body. These pathways allow you to access expanded states of awareness where connection feels richer, more alive, and more deeply felt.

From this elevated state of consciousness, your relationship begins to shift. You relate to yourself and to your partner with more clarity, more devotion, more regulated and with a sense of intimacy that feels both effervescent and deeply satisfying.

Communicate to Liberate

We explore what it means to be emotionally attuned to your partner and how to create a space where both of you feel safe to express yourselves with honesty and tenderness. Together, you learn how to listen with presence rather than defense, and how to offer empathy that softens the heart and invites deeper truth. You will receive practices that strengthen self-awareness, self-care, and genuine connection, all of which rebuild trust and create the foundation for an intimacy that feels liberating, expansive, and alive. Many people long for extraordinary experiences in their intimate lives, yet they have never created the depth of emotional understanding that allows true freedom and pleasure to unfold.

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Modern Sexology

We start with Tantra and we expand from there, because getting your needs met requires a unique look at your development and desires in order to paint the full picture of an erotically satiated and radiating you! Using a series of completed questionnaires, we mastermind the techniques and experiences that best suit your couple, from flirting to foreplay to lovemaking and beyond. This is also a time for exploring what turns you on and getting creative in bridging any of your differences with my experience and support as the guide.

Shamanic Support for Release and Opening

Shamanic work is available for couples who feel called to shed emotional weight and open to their deeper truth. These practices help dissolve old patterns, unprocessed memories, and the heaviness that quietly shapes the way you relate to one another. Through guided ritual, energy clearing, and connection to the natural and spiritual worlds, couples often experience a profound lightness and a renewed sense of presence. This work prepares the heart and body to receive deeper love, deeper intimacy, and a more awakened experience of each other.

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Divine Union Coaching Intensive

It supports your retreat experience by unfolding as a living, continuous process that guides you through emotional healing, spiritual connection, embodied intimacy, and the sustained integration of new relational consciousness. Across the three phases—preparation, immersion, and integration—you learn to communicate with clarity and tenderness, to inhabit your bodies more fully, to connect through presence rather than pattern, and to create the type of intimacy that only becomes possible when two people are willing to awaken together. This is done following along with the Divine Union pre-recorded online course.

A Constellation of Masterful Facilitators

Your experience is supported not only by Ashley Encantada but also by a carefully selected team of masterful facilitators who bring their own realms of expertise into the work. Specialists in bioenergetics, family constellations and advanced wellness practices offer sessions that help regulate the nervous system, expand energetic capacity, and unlock higher potentials in the body. Practitioners of sacred plant medicines and ancestral healing arts may be invited to support couples who feel called to deeper release, spiritual clarity, and emotional opening. Together, these modalities create a rich, multidimensional field of transformation that allows your relationship to evolve on every level.

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Each retreat is one part of a larger transformational journey designed for couples who are ready to commit to deep, lasting change. Your experience begins with four pre-retreat sessions that prepare your body, heart, and mind for the work ahead, along with personalized guidance to help you arrive at the retreat fully resourced and ready for what will unfold.

After your immersion, your evolution continues with four post-retreat sessions that deepen your integration and help you bring your breakthroughs into everyday life. These sessions follow the rhythm of a dedicated pre-recorded online course, giving you a structured, supportive path for sustaining the transformation you begin together.

This is a multi-phase process created for individuals and couples who understand that true, meaningful change occurs through devotion, presence, and commitment over time.

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“My wife and I took Ashley's private workshop in Sayulita in mid-December 2021 to enhance our connection with each other. It was just a terrific experience, exceeding all our expectations. Ashley is a skilled professional with a fantastic background and credentials. She quickly put us at ease, kept us engaged in the work, customized the material to fit our circumstances and personalities, and already has helped us take our relationship to a higher level. We will be recommending her to our friends.”

Steve K.

“I had a one on one consultation with Ashley and felt immediately at ease with Ashley because she turns her full attention and listens very deeply. I felt I could trust her on a matter as sensitive as ones bodily integrity vis-a-vis relationships and relationship karma. Thus I would recommend her without reservation because I feel she is professional, well informed and caring. She is honest, interesting, straight shooting and clearly competent. It is a wonderful opportunity to be in her presence for long or short consultation. Her light shines bright.”

Amina W.

“I have been working with Ashley weekly for about two months, and I have to say it has already changed SO much for me. I am gaining more confidence in myself, which I've never been able to do on my own. She has guided me through meditation, as well as several expressive body movements to release some of my deeper emotions that I have a tendency to lock away. She is very patient, intuitive and knows exactly what to respond to. At times my words escape me, but it has proved to be no issue for her. I highly recommend her services to anyone.”

Carly M.

“Ashley and I worked together for about 4 months to turn around my declining sexual health and performance which resulted in the dissolution of the relationship with my fiancé. Through her expertise, Ashley was able to work with me in my communication skills and gave me examples of physical activity to help reinforce reaching the goals I had for my sexual and overall health. I was hesitant at first, but was able to open up comfortably and gain the needed skills & knowledge with Ashley’s help. She helped me reestablish connection with my fiancé and gave me the tools and insight I needed to continue on the path to a successful love relationship and a healthier life.”

Erik R.

“Ashley is a powerful catalyst for awakening subconscious patterns which may be holding us back. In a short coaching session, she shared with me not just her spot-on intuitive insights, she also shared several tantric tools which were easy and effective to apply. Ashley has a sharp sense of intuition combined with a positive, powerful and practical focus to make sure that your insights are brought into practice in order to achieve lasting change. Thank you, Ashley!”

Nicky D.

“WOW! Just one session with Ashley and my husband and I both feel healing. There were laughs, tears of joy and pain and BREAKTHROUGH!!! Ashley provided us such a safe place to be our authentic sexual beings and also LEARN what that even means for us individually!!!! She gave us totally doable yet challenging homework and we are excited to get to work!!! Thanks so much, from the bottom of our hearts and our sacral chakras!!!! ”

Kirsti M.

“I just completed a Women’s Sensuality Retreat in Sayulita with Ashley and I wholeheartedly recommend it! I already feel a huge but subtle energy shift in that I feel more uninhibited and free to express and I’m sure I will be processing for months to come. Ashley is a wonderful, supportive facilitator who feels like a friend or sister. She is great at collaborating with people locally to add to the experience.. The whole retreat was an amazing value and I would recommend anybody to work with Ashley either during retreat or privately because of her diverse knowledge and healing energy.”

Anastasia M.

“My husband and I signed up for a private retreat with Ashley to stimulate growth, healing, and intimacy in our relationship. Ashley was laser focused on quickly and effectively guiding us toward identifying our issues and supplying us with tools that set us up for longterm relationship and intimacy success. Through this workshop we were able to firmly but lovingly alter our relationship dynamic and open ourselves up to previously unattainable levels of vulnerability and truth individually and collectively. If you are looking for a wholistic mental, emotional, and physical boost for yourself and your relationship, I highly recommend working with Ashley.”

Phaedra Y.

“My husband and I had just gotten married (Aug 2021) and we were interested in using some of our honeymoon funds to dive deeper into our sexual desires, blocks, triggers, etc. Our sex life was good but not amazing and we both missed the amazing we had in the beginning. Ashley’s teaching style is so warm and she made us feel so comfortable opening up. Much easier that I expected. I love that her program was completely personalized to where we were that day, that moment. We are so grateful for her expertise in the tantra world and her peaceful glow and loving energy. We can't wait to work with her again!”

Jennifer D.

“I came to Ashley seeking support with very sensitive aspects of my personal development and marriage. Her guidance made me feel seen and held deeply and each session delivered powerful results and change. Since hiring her as a coach and learning tools that support me in thriving in my everyday life & relationships, I have also signed up for a women's retreat and will continue to work with and recommend her to anyone seeking transformation themselves.”

Kaitlin D.

“Ashley Encantada’s coaching has helped me reclaim my sovereignty, while also teaching me how to co-create my most desired intimate experiences with a partner! She's shown me how to pursue what I want in love, to establish and hold healthy boundaries in my relationships and to raise my standards and self respect. She has provided me effective exercises to become reacquainted with myself and reclaim my pleasure, to celebrate my body and spirit and has reminded me that I can have the luscious life that I always wanted for myself instead of focusing on people pleasing as I have been for years. Ashley has helped me rediscover the excitement on my journey towards increased empowerment and pleasure!”

Berit J.

“Ashley took us on a journey within that brought to surface and helped us to move through doubts and insecurities. It was a journey to awaken our sensuality and creativity unapologetically. We were able to activate our awareness, be present with certain feelings and emotions to work through them while being cradled with a supportive tribe/family. We were guided to tap into our inner wisdom and insight to inspire us to move forward in confidence. I have been able to be more confident and precise in my decision making. I have been setting boundaries and enforcing them more readily and in a loving manner, and have been able to express my needs and wants more clearly and concisely, which is opening doors that I didn't realize I could open prior to this experience.”

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Are you ready to take your relationships to the next level and experience more vibrant connection?

The investment starts at $7,900 for this three month Sacred Affair.

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Hi, I’m Ashley Encantada

As an Holistic Intimacy & Relationship Coach, my mission is to help passionate individuals unlock their true potential for love - one that is liberating, stimulating and as ecstatic as possible.

Internationally sought out by people with big minds and bold hearts, I’ve helped neuroscientists, brain surgeons, psychotherapists, highly distinguished entrepreneurs and CEOs, CPAs and more create and maintain lasting, higher quality love and intimacy. I studied at the California Institute of Integral Studies and have trained in transformation and psychology of change, Kundalini Tantra & Hatha Yoga, Neo Tantra, been through Shamanic initiations and more.

My distinctive retreats and coaching programs are carefully tailored to your unique relationship needs, harnessing the power of Tantra and trauma-informed therapies to ignite lasting breakthroughs and elevate your intimate connection to previously unexplored heights.

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